Separating yourself from the average guy is more subtle then wearing a feather boa when you go out. That’s old school pickup artist tricks and it’s over. There are a lot of things I think you need to focus on when you first meet a woman but here is what I think is one of the biggest personality traits to express to a woman you just met:

1. Have a passion you are pursuing

Having a passion and being able to talk about it properly is more attractive than money, age, looks or anything else you think women want. Of course some women care about your income/social status/etc but most women are not affected by this as much as a confident man who has something he feels passionate about. Ambition is the key ingredient. Women would rather be with a man who has something more important in his life than her. Strange but true. You will never have the respect of a woman if you set aside your purpose for her.

Be able to talk about these things openly and with enthusiasm. You should never be ashamed for something you are passionate about, regardless of how much you think a woman won’t dig it. Talk as if you assume everyone around you is as interested in it as you are. Die hard convictions in people are very hard to not respect. If you make excuses for your interests then that shows her you are value-seeking. Remember Value-Seeking is an attraction destroyer. Somewhere within the reason you are passionate about something is exactly what is going to bring a sexy, amazing woman into your life. Think about it.

Bruce spent over 7 years studying attraction and applying what he learned in the real world. He now shows men from all ages and walks of life how to meet and date women. Sign up for his free crash-course attraction video or check out his Real World Attraction blog for more information.